A message of hope for LGBT Adventist youth. It really does get better.

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While there are no statistics specific to Adventist LGBT youth suicide, religious views about homosexuality are at the root of homophobia and intolerance.

  • LGBT youth are 4 times as likely to attempt suicide than straight youth.
  • LGBT youth with “highly rejecting” families are 8 times more likely to attempt suicide than those whose families accept them.

If you are an LGBT Adventist, you should know that you’re not alone, you can find an accepting and affirming spiritual home (increasingly even within Adventism), and you are a beloved child of God just as you are.

If you are considering suicide or need help, call the Trevor Project now at 866-4-U-TREVOR.

If you want to talk to an Adventist who understands being gay AND loving Sabbath afternoon potlucks, contact SDA Kinship at itgetsbetter@sdakinship.org or Carrol Grady at www.someone-to-talk-to.net.

If you are a parent, educator or pastor, please know that the teens in your life (gay and straight) are learning from your example and need your unconditional love. If you think the church needs to rethink how we treat our LGBT members, stand up and say something. “In the end we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.” Martin Luther King Jr.

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This It Gets Better (for Adventists Too) video was produced by Daneen Akers and Stephen Eyer, the producers of Seventh-Gay Adventists. A huge thank you to the IGB participants who shared their stories, stories that echo the experiences we've now heard from hundreds of LGBT Adventists. In order of appearance, they are: Rob Depew, Christian Bryan, Sara Jones, Corrine Galván, Morris Taylor, and Dave Ferguson. Special thanks to Abby Potts, Julia Alty, Traveling Muse Pictures, New Name Pictures, and Samantha Mills. This video is dedicated to the memory of Holly Drum and every other LGBT Adventist who has not been shown God's unconditional love in the church. We will do better. Please feel free to contact us.